sharonstoneseat
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- Nov 27, 2002
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Final thought. You and I work together. I'm with the East Coast division, you with the West. We share the same office from time to time. You make a copy of a key to the office mailbox (that I previously declared was not authorized for copying) taken from the office lock box. Some busybody in the office you don't get along with comes to me and says that you stole the key off my chain and copied it. I ask you if you've stolen the key off my chain and copy it. You say no (which is technically true since you didn't take it off my chain). I file charges with international saying you've stolen the key from my keychain and copied it. We go to before the board and you tell your side (cause you needed the key to check the mail on days I wasn't there) and I say that the only way you could have copied that key was to take if off my keychain without my permission and use the busybody as a witness (who wasn't there at the time of the copy). The busybody then takes that opportunity to add her own beef to the mix. Neither of us have proof of what actually happened. The board puts both of our testimonies into their decision and tells us to deal with the situation between ourselves. They sanction you for stealing the key because I say that I always keep it on my keychain.
Let me put this in a simple declarative statement rather than another hypothetical situation to somehow justify what occured here. I are not entitled to your stuff. I am not entitled to your stuff in your office, desk, car, home, gadget bag, briefcase, kitchen table or keychain. Even if you say you have pictures of my partner in a compromising positon they are not mine. I am not entitled to your things.
I may want something so bad that it constantly runs through my brain how pleasurable it would be to have it in my possession. but as an adult I have to have some sort of self discipline.
If this is their style of interaction with their peers in a very important situation and you endorse the subsequent swagger that Jeff is already posting on the AFA66 side that is your choice. Lisa and Jeff created this drama with their sense of entitlement coupled with a complete lack of self control. No one else is to blame.
Please read Jeff's latest missive on his heroic actions on the part of the West F/As. His admonishment to all of the members here to "Lead, follow or get the hell out the way" may be your idea of good professional advice and demeanor for this situation, others find it to be just more grossly inappropriate behavior from AFA66.