You are right, I would remember a F/O making those statements. You would be in the minority in Charlotte I do believe. I personally believe in DOH. But you know what they say about opinions.I just flew 3 days with a Simulator Check Airman who said I was in the top 1% of First Officers he's seen so you'd be wrong.
Not saying much, I have flown with weak check airmen. But I will give you the benefit of the doubt and say that if that is true then I would commend you as well. I always appreciate a job well done.
You would remember flying with a First Officer who said DOH is not fair and that USAPA is unethical and incompetent.
I cant say that I disagree on your USAPA statement either.