eolesen
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There's rights and there's rites.
For all intents & purposes, all that the "marriage equality" activists have done is successfully created two forms of marriage over the last 15 years.
There's the secular/civil version as licensed and recognized by the state, and then there's still the sacrament that's been around for millenia. Aside from using the same noun, it's ultimately going to wind up being little different from what marriage and civil unions were 20 years ago. It's separate in the eyes of the churches, but equal in the eyes of the state. Law can only be concerned with the latter.
If you want to refer to secular marriage, I suspect most mainstream faiths support "equality" because in the end, how that gets defined doesn't ultimately affect them.
As for the sacramental version, it's still up to that particular faith to decide. Some denominations already have a more inclusive version of their sacrament, others still don't, and some never will. There are still Rabii's who won't marry a Gentile and a Jew, and still Priests who won't marry a Catholic and non-Catholic unless they "pass" pre-cana (which includes committing to raise their children Catholic). To me, that's really no different than the LDS deciding who gets a Temple Admit, the Catholics and Baptists getting to decide who can participate in Communion, or who can or can't be buried in the church cemetery.
You can call it hate, non-equality, or whatever you want, but in the end, faith decides who gets certain rites, not the State.
Here's some light weekend reading for all you "I really hate hate!" outragers...
http://www.amazon.com/End-Discussion-Outrage-Industry-Manipulates/dp/0553447750/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1432643632&sr=8-1&keywords=end+of+discussion
For all intents & purposes, all that the "marriage equality" activists have done is successfully created two forms of marriage over the last 15 years.
There's the secular/civil version as licensed and recognized by the state, and then there's still the sacrament that's been around for millenia. Aside from using the same noun, it's ultimately going to wind up being little different from what marriage and civil unions were 20 years ago. It's separate in the eyes of the churches, but equal in the eyes of the state. Law can only be concerned with the latter.
If you want to refer to secular marriage, I suspect most mainstream faiths support "equality" because in the end, how that gets defined doesn't ultimately affect them.
As for the sacramental version, it's still up to that particular faith to decide. Some denominations already have a more inclusive version of their sacrament, others still don't, and some never will. There are still Rabii's who won't marry a Gentile and a Jew, and still Priests who won't marry a Catholic and non-Catholic unless they "pass" pre-cana (which includes committing to raise their children Catholic). To me, that's really no different than the LDS deciding who gets a Temple Admit, the Catholics and Baptists getting to decide who can participate in Communion, or who can or can't be buried in the church cemetery.
You can call it hate, non-equality, or whatever you want, but in the end, faith decides who gets certain rites, not the State.
Here's some light weekend reading for all you "I really hate hate!" outragers...
http://www.amazon.com/End-Discussion-Outrage-Industry-Manipulates/dp/0553447750/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1432643632&sr=8-1&keywords=end+of+discussion