LCC_#1
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- Nov 16, 2005
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I respect your opinion, however I couldnt disagree with you more. I have been married for 19 yrs been doing this job 18 yrs, have 2 beautiful children ages 15/13 who have been around the world and back again. They have a wonderful father who take incredible care of them while I am flying. I have missed very few precious moments in their lives, my children and husband understand the devotion that I have to them and to my job. I do not understand why you think this job is selfish to children. When they were very small, I worked 75 hours a month. They were with a sitter a day and a half a week. That adds up too 6 days a month. Most kids are in day care or some sort of child care 5 days a week. Nothing selfish about that.
You are right. I stand corrected. I have just seen some of the nightmare cases and it is alarming to hear the stories when you are in the middle of J/S therapy.
I do have a dear friend that quit and he missed his alone time because he felt this gave him QUALITY time with his kids. It took him a loooong time to adjust.
I guess time is relative.
Gee, I use to have a cat and felt guilty when I left. I can't imagine how a parent must feel.