PB --
As I was reading this thread I was thinking the same words "Life is choices!" Everyday! Some are easy, some are hard, and some are difficult.
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Funny, isn't the difference between animal behavior and human behavior the very fact that we have "choice"?
Basically, when I hear an F/A say they don't have a "choice" that they HAVE to commute (no one "has to" do anything -- they CHOOSE to commute!), I hear them saying "I don't want to give up XXXX". I think the poster that continues to defend commuting as not having a choice needs to realize that it is a choice and a benefit that very, very, very, very few other professions offer. When a regular worker is offered a job in another city (and I'm talking 300+ miles away) -- because his office is closing or to take a promotion -- do you think that worker can commute to the new job? I think not. Yes, the F/A job is unique in it's flexibility; however, choosing to commute is an option and you should not get boarding priority over "regular" non-revs because of a life-style/job choice that you have made.
WE HAVE ALL MADE SACRIFICES IN THIS INDUSTRY, except for executive management and it looks like that isn't going to change anytime soon. Let's try to respect each other because believe it not, we need each other -- the airplane can't fly with just one working group. We have all CHOSEN to be employed and continue to be employed in this industry -- do not ASSUME your pain is any worse than anyone else's and that because of choices you've made that you get priority over someone else. We've all made choices that are difficult and that we have to live with based on our personal priorities. Everyone comes with "baggage" (spouse, parents, kids, school, house, etc, etc, etc) and we all make CHOICES in how we deal with it. No ones CHOICES gives them a priority over anyone when it comes to non-revving. Period.
(stepping down from soap box now...)