Many years ago, there was a First officer that regularly flew PHL-LGW. One day, he checked in at my gate to go to PBI.....always a tough flight. He was travelling with his child, last flight of the night, etc. Back in the days when you still could, I made some arrangements with the crew to get all on board (legal ones, of course). He never forgot and any time I was on his flight (which I did often), he did his best to make sure I sat in F-class. Another much-too-long story to tell here was a BWI-PHL in an old Shorts-360. I was one of two non-revs and, luckily, the one with senority. At the last minute, the captain decided we had a weight/balance problem and they deplaned my co-worker......she was a tiny person......no more than 90-100 pounds. He knew it was non-rev and, back in the old "commuter" days, we often "fixed" such problems by declaring a bag or two as "carry-on". She was stuck....again last flight.
As to fatherabraham's question.....we always took as good care as we could. I was always a by-the-book person as far as stand-by lists were concerned.....mainly because for me, my job was always more important than having to explain to management when someone complained. Nevertheless, if there was an empty seat, coach or F, they went. On the other hand, many years ago in MSY, I was left behind on a flight that had F-class seats open and I didn't have an upgrade.....even though there was a female F/A who DID get on, in uniform, in F-class with no upgrade. I discovered this because the tkt counter supervisor, at the time, was an old friend and, at my request, he pulled the agents in. I wasn't upset that I didn't get on.....just that they cut her a break and not me........
Years ago, at Delta, flying FAT-SLC-PHL, as a non-rev, I was upgraded without even asking. In SLC, one of their Freaky Fliers was begging an upgrade and they turned him down because his tkt was a coach tkt and they wanted him to pay F-class fare to fly F-class......boy, are those days gone!
Thank you for the invite kao and feel free to post the earlier message....where are you?