Your instincts have not failed you, trust me! I couldn't get out of MEM fast enough...
Sadly Kev I have to agree with you.. But have been in MEM for so long my friends here make it worth it as well as my job but this is about the last place I would want to live if I was to put it up against other places. The cost of living is a lot better than where I grew up though. But hey it can be exciting here I never had a gun pulled on me till I came here...lol