York man dies off Ga. coast
36-year-old's actions helped save boy's life,
witnesses say
By Matt Garfield The Herald
(Published June 23‚ 2004)
TYBEE ISLAND, Ga. -- They were on the Georgia coast for a summer vacation, standing on a sandbar not far from shore when the ocean closed in around them. Kent Sandefur of York was with his wife, Becky, their two children, and the two children of the Rev. Mark Crews, the Sandefurs' pastor at Life Way Church in York.
It was Thursday afternoon, and the group was in ankle-deep water on a long sandbar looking for sea shells, just as they had the day before.
Sandefur and Crews' 6-year-old son decided to venture further out from the others, ending up about 40 feet from the beach.
Suddenly, waves swept over them.
Sandefur, 36, never made it back to shore. If not for him, Crews' son might not have survived either.
"I'm joyful that my son is OK, but I'm also overwhelmed by his (Sandefur's) loss," said Crews, who was not on vacation with the group. "In the book of John, it says, 'A greater love has no one than this that he lay down his life
for his friends.' That's the epitome of what Kent did. He gave his life to save my son's."
Over the past five days, Crews has pieced together details of what happened by talking to his children and Becky Sandefur.
The water had been calm that day, Crews said. And from where the group stood looking for sea shells, posted signs warning of dangerous undercurrents were not visible.
Suddenly, due to an incoming tide or waves created by a passing cargo ship, or maybe both, Crews said the ocean swallowed up the sandbar.
Because they were further out, Sandefur and Crews' son were swept into deeper waters away from the shore. The others were pushed inward.
Sandefur struggled for several minutes to keep himself and Crews' son afloat, at one point even throwing the boy toward the shore. Soon after, Sandefur went under.
Becky Sandefur watched it all from the beach.
"She could see a single head above the water, but she couldn't tell if it was my son or her husband," Crews said.
It was Crews' son. Somehow, the boy managed to make it back to the beach after 45 minutes -- exhausted, but not injured.
The Coast Guard, the Georgia Department of Natural Resources and Tybee Island lifeguards searched into Friday for Sandefur, according to
The Associated Press.
Sandefur's remains have not yet been found.
"It was evident in his life he was pleasing God," Crews said of Sandefur, who was employed by U.S. Airways as a line maintenance worker. "Just an incredible servant. Willing to do absolutely anything to help."