Wonder how AA, and WN get away with it. I book an AA exit row every week. AA allows this Elite (Yes I'm good looking too! - life is outstanding) to book an exit row months in advanceIf I am reading your post correctly you're upset that the EXIT ROW was not released prior to check in. It's always been my understanding that the agent is to visually inspect the occupants of the exit row to ensure they speak English and are not disabled. They must be able to operate the exit since those seats are not for leg room, it's there to egress an aircraft in an emergency. The company would take that out in a heartbeat if the FAA would let them. I hope for one they continue to withhold those seats until they have spoken to and assessed the occupant. Honestly, a Pilot or deadheading crew member or other airline employee should be assigned the seat first as they are intimately familiar with the operation. Maybe a priority list for that row? If no airline people are on the flight I say assign them to our FF. Flame away!
WN flight attendant stands at exit row greeting customer with a friendly smile and help old ladies load luggage in the bin.
This also shows the customer service failings. I believe WN discourage employees even not in uniform from taking the premium seats from customers. Never seen a uniform employee in exit row