Here's my two cents. Which, is usually in foreign currency and yarn and whatever else I found in my pocket, but I really don't think it's ever necessary to give a passenger, customer, whoever, your FULL name unless you are in management and conflict resolution is part of your position. It is always easy to find out who the offending employee was by referencing a flight, a reciept, a specific date and time you were there....etc.
If you REALLY want to write a letter, and you REALLY feel like you've been wronged, and you think it's serious enough that the employee needs to be accountable, then you would be diligent and discreet enough to use what information you may have instead of making the situation more inflammatory. Otherwise, I would think that the offended should step back for a second and really evaluate what their role and perception had to do with getting him or her at that boiling point.. the issue at hand dealt with a customer service experience that a customer had with an employee of an airline.
Because that flight attendant or agent doesn't have fiduciary responsibility to that passenger, I don't believe the last name was appropriate. However, the airline does have that responsibility and when handling that situation, should take the customer's claim seriously. And like Tad said, document, document, document! If you are a FA, ask an agent to document it for you and if they won't do it, ask another one.
At the end of the day, I think the real service will change when we try to understand our passengers better because they are a very diverse group. Understanding difference between empoyee/customer and fiduciary repsonsibility to a client would be helpful because many of our fliers are immersed in a world where they are catering to clients where it is absolutely necessary to know as much information as possible and utlize it to earn and keep repeat business.
And then there are those that spent their whole life saving to go to Disneyworld on Mcd's wages and finally get to go and it's devastating with things go wrong.
And then there are jerks who just go off. Here's how I handle those. I think they are impulsive, passionate, and they burn out quickly. I dont think they're going to write a letter because by the time they get home, it's over and done with. I document their records, and I try not to let it bother me because most of the time, if this gnome can't charm them, they're just whack.
I have been in this industry for ten years (Wendys!) but it doesn't pay my bills. I have had my own business for years, with very intensive sales training and experience, and I find that understanding the relationship that you engage in while you are at work is extremely important to keeping those people in your business circle. If I weren't working here, I'd be buying a crapload of hamburgers, so I kind of know how I would feel and want to be treated because I worked very hard to build my business, yet remember what it was like to scrape pennies together to visit a sick relative. Wanna know what a weirdo I am? I worked my gnomey tail off so that I could afford to have this job. So, it's possible that I'm just nuts and you shouldnt listen to anything I say.
So, for the people like me that skim to the bottom, sorry I had my little soapbox moment 🙂
I think I'm gonna go throw a thread off topic to restore the balance of the planet. :blink: