Second, I am not intending to be "rude" as you put it, and certainly as we are not bowling buddies sharing our private thoughts. However, as you put it out there within this open, public forum, I hardly think I am sharing secrets as to your self-described "vices". I am simply making an observation that you were a more pleasant person, say about a year ago-- about the same time as to when you stopped smoking and it coincided with your changes in alcohol consumption. Any "assumptions" I am making are based upon information your shared openly within this forum, and my conclusions are solely my observations and opinions. Furthermore, my commentary would not be typically deemed as harsh, as I simply called-out contradictions in your timeline and made no judgments as to your personal "vices".