I am not so sure that "Who first told you..." and "You are just plain wrong" is polite or respectful. The point of debate is to back up your opinions with the reasoning behind them. If you think my opinion is wrong, or out in left field, fine. But tell me why. Don't tell me, "You are completely wrong. Respectfully,..." I find that completely disrespectful.
Also, using sources you cannot reveal as the basis of your argument time and time again is not respectful. It reminds me of a child who says, "I know a secret" and then won't tell it. If you have a secret, fine, no reason to advertise it to the world. If you want to say, "I heard a rumor or unsubstantiated report", thats fine too... But respect me enough to say it, instead of tell me this is fact, when often it is a game of "he said/she said".
Respectful posters tend to take what they learn from other posters, and add it to their knowledge, and you see it in future posts. I am here to learn, and maybe even hear a good rumor. However, I find it completely disrespectful that when USA320Pilot is repeatedly explained a different view point, or even that his "facts" are just plain wrong, and yet he refuses to accept it... Because his sources told him something different. There have been several examples of this. I find this completely disrespectful.
Finally, respectful posters don't have to sign off "Respectfully,..." While its a nice way to have a sign-off or ending to your post... I am not fooled. Someone who is respectful doesn't have to remind me at the end of the post. It shows in the body of the post, and in their over all posting on this board.
Also, using sources you cannot reveal as the basis of your argument time and time again is not respectful. It reminds me of a child who says, "I know a secret" and then won't tell it. If you have a secret, fine, no reason to advertise it to the world. If you want to say, "I heard a rumor or unsubstantiated report", thats fine too... But respect me enough to say it, instead of tell me this is fact, when often it is a game of "he said/she said".
Respectful posters tend to take what they learn from other posters, and add it to their knowledge, and you see it in future posts. I am here to learn, and maybe even hear a good rumor. However, I find it completely disrespectful that when USA320Pilot is repeatedly explained a different view point, or even that his "facts" are just plain wrong, and yet he refuses to accept it... Because his sources told him something different. There have been several examples of this. I find this completely disrespectful.
Finally, respectful posters don't have to sign off "Respectfully,..." While its a nice way to have a sign-off or ending to your post... I am not fooled. Someone who is respectful doesn't have to remind me at the end of the post. It shows in the body of the post, and in their over all posting on this board.