Just to use facts, if his passes were suspended, then you can NOT use someone elses passes or travel on another carrier unless you purchase a ticket. Which AA can not stop you from buying a ticket on another carrier. Same if you are married to an employee and get fired, you can NOT use your spouses passes, ever again. Now you think some rumor of a story you heard second hand, maybe third hand, is fact. Nice.I'd be willing to bet that although his non-rev pass has been suspended, he's likely traveling on another employees pass, on another carrier. Doesn't surprise me there is a lot of abuse of sick policy, I heard of an international FA bragging that she hasn't flown since May 2011 and just recently retired.
Josh