firstamendment
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- Apr 1, 2003
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Goodstewgoodstew said:yeah, I guess I could have...when i had a minute with me and my ONE other co-worker (our third is in 1st class by herself) dealing with the other 130 people and all their particular 'special needs'. this on top of all my regular duties of preflight inventory of catering supplies, for sale items, post flight inventory and paperwork(if I am $5 off from headset sales, liquor sales, in flight cafe meals I get a complementary trip to the supervisor on my day off) providing a drink, meal and seconds on drink to said 130 people. While I am in the aisle with my ONE other coworker I get to watch 3-4 people milling about in the back galley 'stretching thier legs' while the seat belt sign is on. Mind you they are opening cabinets and touching the door handles and sitting on slide bustles and I am trapped between two carts. I don't know what the hell they are doing and then right in the middle of the service while I have 2 call bells going off, might be a spilled diet coke, might be a heart attack, might be someone wondering..."what is that lake down there and will I make my connection, you never asked me if I wanted fresh ground pepper on my cafe meal..." Of course I don't know what it is for because the only flight attendants are 1. trapped between 2 carts in the aisle and 2. gone to the front galley to get other catering supplies we ran out of and to check to see if anyone has slit the front f/a throat. The First Officer then comes out to use the lav and one of us is required to go into the cockpit for security reasons. Now I am still only half way through the service and I am alone with 145 people who may want to kill me and 10 of them need something 'right now'.
Then I get to do it all over 2 more times that day!
See how an simple request to take care of her own problems by Audrey makes her a Big Girl who gets to travel by herself?
I stand by my 'personal responsibility' mantra. If she had asked the person in front of her to move his seat back forward and got no satisfaction, I am more than willing to help. If he refused my request (happens all the time) I can't make him.
Either way Audrey needs to suck it up and take care of herself.
When I had 5 years of flying I remember going on about people not putting their seats up and constantly having to remind them of such. I was so upset that these people didn't care to listen. I was complaining to a coworker and he asked me how long I had been flying. I said 5years. He responded, you've been telling them to bring their seat backs up for 5 years and will do so for the rest of your career. That's why we're here. I looked at him and said...you know, you're right.
Sweetie, I've been at it for 17 years and can tell you it's time for a different approach. We all get burned out but we ARE in the customer service industry. It's not ALL about safety. How long have you been slinging cokes?
FAR's, silly company policies, good..bad.and ugly customers, baby sitter, mother, father, pastor, counselor, mediator, PR person, boyfriend, girlfriend..............................expectations, babies crying, vomit, turbulence, connections missed, stupid questions, isulting remarks, mels, not enough meals (to sell), $5 for movies and drinks, thunderstorms in the summer, blizzards in the winter...on and on.
These things are a part of your entire job that will be with you until you either quit, the airline goes out of business, or you die. What is really making you so unhappy? I'm not going to be like others and tear you apart but sit down and try to feel why you are unhappy. You might find it has nothing to do with your job.
Customer service is harsh and it isn't for everyone. I have been working with the public for 26 years (God I'm only 41) and you have to learn to NOT take ANYTHING personally.
Good luck.