Bears my friend....I gotta weigh in here. I was born and raised in the south, although it was Florida, which many to be considered "Long Island South", my dads family was from Virginia and North Carolina. Gotta tell you something - racism isn't exclusive to the south. A guy who was incredibly funny (Lewis Grizard - southwind may know of him) was from the south and wrote an article about being in Chicago and having a cab driver who was black. He told the cabbie he was from Atlanta...and the cabbie replied "so am I". Lewis braced himself for the speech, but the guy said "I miss it. At least there you KNEW where you weren't supposed to be". And he's kind of right. As bad as it is - in the south, a minority knew where they weren't welcomed. In the north, they would just get the #### kicked out of them because they were someplace they shouldn't be. It ain't good, but that's the way things are.
I've been called a racist by some of our southern friends here because I used the N word where most "non racist conservatives" won't. But last year, my daughters prom date was a black guy. NIce kid. They had a good time. I wonder...they are quick to call me racist - would they have felt good about THEIR daughter going to the prom with someone of a different race?
It would be cool to see the blood pressure drop when you first learned that.......LOL